Are you spending enough time in the Stretch Zone?


Build Your Confidence by Spending More Time in the Stretch Zone

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I'm sure you're familiar with the comfort zone, Reader. It's safe and, yes, comfortable there.

But it can become stagnant ... and you can become "stuck" ... if you spend too much time there. Because nothing changes in the comfort zone. There's no reason for it to. The comfort zone is all about maintaining the status quo.

The problem with that is when you stop being satisfied with the status quo and want more.

See, we aren't meant to settle for a stagnant status quo.

We are meant to continue to grow and evolve.

However, venturing too far outside of our comfort zone can feel risky. As Dr. Julie explains in today's video, we get into the panic zone if we go too far beyond what feels safe and comfortable.

The answer is to regularly spend more time in the stretch zone ... that magical space in between comfort and panic.

In the stretch zone, things are challenging but doable with some effort. The stretch zone allows us to grow and expand our comfort zone gradually.

And this builds our confidence because we prove to ourselves that, yes, we can do it.

The key to making the stretch zone work for you is having the courage to spend time there consistently.

Action Steps to Build Confidence in Your Stretch Zone

Here's how to use the stretch zone to build your confidence:

  1. Identify Your Stretch Zone Activities – What’s something that challenges you but isn’t completely overwhelming? Maybe it’s speaking up in meetings, reaching out to new clients, or trying a new skill.
  2. Take Small, Consistent Steps – Growth doesn’t happen all at once. Commit to one small stretch-zone action daily or weekly to build momentum.
  3. Reframe Discomfort as Growth – When you start feeling uneasy, remind yourself: This is where growth happens. Discomfort means you’re expanding your capabilities.
  4. Track Your Wins – Keep a confidence journal or note your progress in Trello. Looking back on past wins will reinforce that you’re capable of more than you think.
  5. Celebrate Progress, Not Perfection – Confidence isn’t about never failing; it’s about learning and improving. Every step in the stretch zone strengthens your belief in yourself.

So, Reader, what’s one thing you can do today to step into your stretch zone?

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Thank you. I appreciate you!

xoxo,
Michele

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Feb. 2, 2025 | Coach Michele Peterson

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